Sunday, December 08, 2024

My experience of the Vedic Wisdom.


I grew up in Maharashtra, India – the land of ancient Vedic tradition. It is a part of the world that worships the five elements and hundreds of deities bearing different names. 

As a kid, I have seen many poor communities that lived happily and harmoniously without any luxuries. Such communities included people from different backgrounds, earning their living through inherited skills like in carpentry, weaving, pottery, metal work and so on. Once a week, a washerman picked up laundry from our home and returned it the following week washed, ironed and neatly folded. There were 'Tongawalas' who earned livelihood by driving a horse cart. There was an elderly Muslim gentleman who rode over 20 miles every day on his bicycle to deliver newspapers and magazines. A barber came home occasionally to give us a haircut. A carpenter made us a cricket bat and benches from waste wood for a song! The grocer gave us credit, fully trusting us. A fruit vendor on his bicycle sold us fruits. There were numerous small tradesmen who made a honest living selling all kinds of wares  and services door-to-door. There were travelling salesman who used to sell salt, cloth, bangles, aluminium utensils, cheap toys, ice cream etc. A kalaivala used to amuse the kids by setting up a shop on the ground.

Each of them was very happy pursuing his profession and we loved them for their dedication to work. In general, workers had pride in their workmanship and most importantly were contented. Being happy was primary. Earning money was secondary.

The primary school I studied at had no electric gadgets like fans, television or telephones. People believed in nature as the Almighty that provides resources for living. It was considered a sin to sell water or spit into it. I have witnessed people greeting each other by chanting the Lord’s name “Ram Ram.” Disputes in villages were often amicably settled in a ‘panchayat’ – a small court headed by the village chieftain – without any paperwork.

Social practices too had a code of behavior. It was considered a duty for sons to take care of old parents. Divorce was almost unheard of. At home, parents encouraged kids to wake up before sunrise and offer prayers. Every morning and evening, oil lamps must be lit at home. People believed (many still do) that some plants and trees like Tulasi, Neem, Bilva, Peepal, were divine. Even a blade of grass is a divine fit for offering to Lord Ganesha.

For most of us, life was simple, smooth and fun. Such was the great Wisdom of Vedic Tradition!

Tuesday, February 13, 2024

The Art of Aging

 Am I getting older? No. I am just chronologically gifted! in fact, I feel proud to be a member of the octogenarian club.

What is the Art of Aging? Art refers to a certain skill. So, the Art of Aging means the skill to age gracefully and face reality.

Most people fear old age. Whether you like it or not, aging happens since the day you were born. You need to accept growing old; it is inevitable. 

It is a part of life. If you are 80+ like me, think you are among the lucky ones to survive past 80.

You have entered a new phase of learning. Regardless of how you have lived in the past, you will gain new perspectives about life.


No doubt, you will face new challenges, both physically and mentally.A lot of weird stuff may be happening to your body. Lifting weights, running or climbing the stairs aren't exactly things to do after 80. Your food menu may change - not by choice but more by necessity. You may tend to forget many things like your glasses, keys and names. People around you may start treating lightly of what you say-some may become indifferent. 

You have more time to pursue things that make you happy. There are many things that can engage you positively with least disturbance to others. Enjoy the beauty of nature around you- see the wonderful colors of leaves and flowers, listen to the birds chirping, admire the beauty and innocense of little children, grow small plants and get excited when you harvest a produce -there are so many such nice pastimes for you. 

If you are a religious person, you can perform a puja at home or read some shlokas. If you are good in expressing yourself, write articles of interest.

Choose your attitude - Be always positive in your thinking and talking. Try and enjoy the food you eat even if it is not your favourite. Gauge how people feel when they are with you. Do they feel comfortable? Laugh with them, inspire them, encourage them and bless them for a wonderful life. Avoid arguments.

In Mahabharata, there is an interesting epiosde called "Yaksha Prashna." In this episode, Yama Dharmaraja in the form of an Yaksha asks many questions to Yudhisthira, the eldest of Pandavas. I recall two of the questions and answers that seem most relevant to seniors:

Question: What is the most surprising thing in this world?

Answer: The most surprising thing is, though all humans know they are mortal, everybody goes about their life as if they are going to live forever.

Question: What is the greatest happiness?

Answer: Contentment

Remember these wonderful responses by the wise Yudishtra.

In short, the Art of Aging is to find your own ways to enter the most exciting and perhaps the final phase of life!